Monday, December 31, 2012

Meet Charming

This year my kids got to meet our very own ELF ON THE SHELF
They absolutely ADORED him and were SO EXCITED to wake up every morning
to see where he had moved to. In fact, sometimes they would wake up at 4 or 5 in the morning to check on him. It was like Christmas Eve EVERY MORNING. Sheesh. Here's what he was up to:
 Reading stories to the little dolls in the dollhouse.
 Rolling down the stairs in a toilet paper roll.
 Trying on Mommy's makeup and writing on the mirrors with lipstick.
 Made us little elf pancakes.
 Holding the Baby Jesus.
 Tangled up in Christmas lights.

Having a bubble bath with a mermaid.

Gathered all the dolls and stuffed animals together for a farewell party...or something.

They only accidentally touched him twice, and so he had to stay in a "sick bed" for an extra day until Santa brought medicine to sprinkle on him to give him his magic back. He moved every night of December and was a total blast. One picture I don't have is when he put the star on top of our tree and sat up there until the girls found him. Another funny one was when he was hanging from a vent in the ceiling. (Annie confided in me that she asked him to do something from the ceiling. He totally listened.)

By Christmas, Kalia had cried several times at the thought of losing her precious Charming (that's what they named him.) So Charming, who didn't want to leave either, got special permission from Santa to stay through January, AND the girls were given permission to play with him and hold him and touch him for the month, as long as they understood that he wouldn't be coming alive and moving around every night if he was being held and touched. This has been a good plan and helped them get over the "realness" of this little elf, to help transition him out of our house until next year. 

The holidays were rough in 2012

All pictures courtesy of the Iphone...

*Thanksgiving Day: Annie had a fever and we brought the sickness home. Annie had a fever for 6 days, a sore throat, white in her throat, and was NEGATIVE for strep.

*Ella caught it next, it went straight to her ears, and I had a killer sore throat. Again, both of us negative for Strep, and I decided to hold off on Ella's antibiotic because I was convinced it was viral- Annie had recovered on her own so I figured Ella could too.

*About 36 hours later, Ella was doing AWFUL. She was so hot and feverish, so lethargic, and was in an INCREDIBLE amount of pain. I was alternating Tylenol and Ibuprofen to try to get her to eat and swallow but she wouldn't/couldn't. It was the sickest I have ever seen any of my children in my life. I took her to the family doctor, who almost hospitalized her, but decided to try a strong antibiotic shot (Rocephin) first, with strict instructions to take her to the ER if I didn't see improvement within 12 hours. *The fever went away, and it was about 12 hours later that she started drinking. I took her back into the office the next morning for another dose of Rocephin. This is a pic of her coming home from the doctor's office that morning. So sad. 

 So she stayed really sick for another week, despite being on Amoxicillin (originally prescribed at the Urgent Care for the ear infection). I took her back to the doctor a week later because she was having coughing fits, coughing until she vomited. They heard something in her lungs, sent her for a chest X-ray, and found some fluid, and diagnosed her with bronchiolitis (caused by RSV). They sent us home with a nebulizer and breathing treatments, which we had to give her several nights in a row (in the middle of the night, of course.) In the meantime, I was struggling with the lack of sleep, and trying to get hard of my own sinus infection.

MY 32nd BIRTHDAY hit in mid-December. The kids were finally getting better, I was almost better, and Samuel and just finished finals and passed a very hard semester (several of his friends failed out of the nursing program. So sad.)  I scheduled a hair appointment for some fresh highlights and lowlights and a Shellac manicure (which has lasted almost a full month without chipping. LOVE it!)
 and some shopping and cupcake buying, and of course I had to start the day with my free breakfast at Joe's Farm Grill with Samuel and Ella, (I don't know what was so funny)
I thought it was kinda crazy that our pager was #32- the age I just turned.
And then onto Oregano's that night for dinner with our good friends (the Ritchey's). I NEEDED a pizookie.


It was a fun day, and after dinner Samuel told me he had to pick something up that he bought on Craigslist for his mom for Christmas. He said we had to meet this guy at a hotel. I was feeling super funny about it, it seemed so shady. We go into the hotel, knock, nobody answers, I'm feeling like something REALLY weird is going on, but I was totally unsuspecting...then Samuel pulls out a room key, opens the door and SURPRISE...it's decorated with balloons and streamers. He had spent the days before my birthday arranging with my mom and dad (who paid for the room- Priceline special) and his parents who were staying overnight with my kids (on a Monday night) and getting them off to school the next day. It was one of the best surprises ever. I got to sleep for 10 straight hours, it was badly needed. The room was nice too, with a mini-kitchen, an awesome hot breakfast, and comfy beds. Here's some pics.


 I look kinda tired but it was a VERY full day.

The next day we went to Kalia's little school Christmas program. She had talked Nana into letting her wear her sparkly red Sunday Christmas dress to school for the program. I had to laugh. I wish I got a good pic of her in it, but here's her class, she's in the upper right hand corner with a white flower in her hair.

*Christmas 2012
I did all my Christmas shopping online (LOVE IT) and got some killer deals. We decided to take the kids to see Santa on the Saturday before Christmas, and we decided to go all out and drive to Bass Pro Shop, where they have a TON of free fun stuff to do and a "fast pass" thing to see Santa. I called the day before and they said the fast pass would give you a time about 2 hours later than your ticket, so we knew we would need to plan on being there early enough for that. We drove 45 minutes to get there, arrived at 4 p.m. and were told (rather rudely) that THEY WERE ALL OUT OF FAST PASSES FOR THE REST OF THE DAY and we could come back tomorrow. Oh.My.Word I was INFURIATED and I vowed to NEVER go there again. But then I heard from a friend that if you go before Thanksgiving, there's not even a line. So MAYBE we'll do that. But DUH. Don't go to Bass Pro to see Santa a few days before Christmas. Luckily my girls and Samuel didn't seem to mind at all. The girls had already gotten a personalized video from Santa (portablenorthpole.com, love that site) so they probably figured they didn't need to see him anyway. See him way back there in the background?  


We were finally all healthy. It was Samuel's "year" for Christmas with all his siblings, and since his mom had two mini-strokes this last summer, I took charge of organizing Christmas for her, with the help of all the siblings and spouses. I was organizing all the activities for the whole week, making food and cooking assignments, trying to get babysitters so we could go to an adult movie (Les Mis anyone?). And I also tried to schedule a profesh family picture. That was the biggest nightmare. Um....let's just say it was all an unbelievable amount of work. There were a lot of people's schedules to accommodate, lots of little kids (ten kids under age 6) to try to work with (and their naps/bedtimes) etc. etc. But they were all very grateful and happy to have this new schedule to keep things running efficiently, so that helped. It actually went off pretty well, and the schedule helped immensly. Samuel and I sang a duet in church the Sunday before Christmas, we turned the beautiful "Mary's Lullaby- Tonight you are mine" into a really rad duet- it's normally not of course, but we got some really great feedback on it, so we considered that a good December moment.  I was just thankful to have my voice back after being sick for several weeks before that. Back to Christmas...
We had fun seeing the Mesa temple lights with the fam, and I got to see one of my dearest friends and mission companions while there, the wonderful Amy (Lundquist) Jensen. (dang it! No picture of us!)



BUT

The rest of Christmas still brought a lot of drama. The family pictures did not work out- after rescheduling about TWELVE times (no joke), we had to either cancel the pictures or take them without one of the families. We decided to take them without one of the families, which seems a little pointless, but we got a few good shots of our own, and one with Grandma and Grandpa- so that will be good to have, especially if anything happens to Samuel's mom in the next few years, what with her poor health and all. (Should I point out that in almost 7 years of marriage, the family has NEVER had a professional picture taken ALL together? Two families live out of state, that makes it hard.

I knew that we or our kids would probably get sick again after a family gathering, but I didn't anticipate how bad it would be. Specifically, how bad Samuel and I would get sick. Our kids actually turned out fine, with the exception of a slight ear infection for Annie and a double one for Ella. But with the household/possible moving/drama that happened two days after Christmas, it all just got the best of us, and we spent the entire Christmas break down and out, sleeping and resting. (What a blessing to have Samuel home the entire time, although we didn't get as much done as we would have liked.)





Must. Brag.

So, I don't really love it when people brag about their kids. I know that every parent thinks their kid is the smartest, most beautiful child on the planet. So you kind of roll your eyes when you hear about these other kids and their accomplishments. Just go ahead and do that if you want. But I think these are genuinely great accomplishments:



KALIA's report card just came home. Before she started school, I worried a bit because she only went to 6 weeks of preschool. She used to play Starfall that helped her learn to sound out words, which she was able to do before she even turned 4. Then I helped her learn some sight words (okay, a whole bunch of them) before kindergarten started. But she just naturally caught on very fast and remembered things almost immediately after learning them.

Her teacher confirmed that she is the best reader in her class. She knows more sight words (over 100) than anyone in her class. And today I found out that she is reading at a 2nd grade level. The goal for the kindergartners was to be reading at a level 2 or 3 by the end of kindergarten (on Rigby's scale). Kalia is currently reading at level 17.  I'm so proud.

And so I don't forget, her drawings are only "average" and her handwriting...not so good...although the teacher scores her as average on writing as well. I asked her if she could slow down a little so her writing would look better, but she got tears in her eyes and said, "But if I don't hurry I won't finish and I'll have to stay inside for recess to finish!" Heaven forbid! No seriously! Those kids only have ONE recess, and Kalia NEEDS it badly! So I asked her if she would work on one page of handwriting a day after school (she has full-day kindergarten and has NO homework...I LOVE IT...) but she happily agreed to that deal.
Also, since apparently Samuel had a little dyslexia, I am keeping an eye on every letter and number that she writes backwards. I don't know when to expect that to go away, but I frequently see 2's, 3's and 7's backwards. I'm keeping an eye on it.

Kalia is also very physically gifted. She can run SO fast. She is so strong. She has been crossing monkey bars (no problem) since she was 3. She can jump high and swim far and she is just built like a little gymnast. I really want to find a way to get in into gymnastics at a really awesome gym. I'm looking forward to some days ahead of cheering on my little athlete. She is not very interested in any team sports so far...but she does think cheerleading is kind of cool.

ANNIE is lucky enough to do two different preschools this year- Joy School two days a week (it's almost 3 hours long, it's lovely- I also help teach that one week out of every six) and then an academic preschool. This sweet teacher in our ward took her in for free and it's been SO great to have someone teaching her the academic stuff. Sadly, as the second child, she has not had as much one-on-one time with me, but she is able to sound out words and count pretty high, her writing is decent, her coloring is much better than Kalia's is (even now).

Where Annie really seems to excel is in music and dancing. She can sing with almost perfect pitch. I have the cutest video of her singing the entire song "Away in a Manger" when she was barely 2 years old, and she already carried the tune amazingly. She has a beautiful voice and she seems to be a natural performer (less stage fright than Kalia, for sure.) She also took a little ballet class and had a winter recital. She was by far the best in her class. She was on the beat unlike any of the other girls, and she was very lovely and graceful. I look forward to more of all of that.



ELLA is really the one amazing me these days though. She is 21 months old, and she is doing some incredible things. She is addicted to the Ipod Touch, and constantly plays apps and watches her two favorite shows, Super Why and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. Most of what she's learned has come from these apps, I'm sure of it. Here's a list of things she is doing right now:


*She loves to climb up on the toilet (all by herself) and straddle the seat and pee in the potty. She knows she gets chocolate chips if she does it. She usually just squeezes something out. (She doesn't go because she feels the urge. And she's never pooped on the potty.)
*She can sing the entire alphabet
*She can identify MOST of the letters when she sees them, both uppercase and lowercase
*She can hold a pen/pencil/crayon and tries to write letters (She likes to play Letter School on the Itouch too). She can write "L" consistently and she walks around saying, "E-L-L-A" because she knows it spells her name.
*She sings entire songs, her favorite being Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. She sings really loud and it's really funny. She also sings The Eensy Weensy spider, Baa Baa black sheep, I Love to See the Temple, (in full) and she loves to sing the end of every line when I sing, "Hush Little Baby", "The Wheels on the Bus", and several others. But her most favorite that she requests almost every night is "Baby Mine" (from Dumbo...the sweetest song). She knows almost all of the words and when she sings it, you could just die it is so cute.
*She can name every Disney princess.
*She has the best manners of any child I know. She says "excuse me" EVERY time she burps. She says please for everything, and she thanks EVERYONE, for EVERYTHING, by name. Example: I hand her some juice. She says, "Thank you Mommy." If Samuel unbuckles her to get her out of the car, she says, "Thank you Daddy." She thanks Kalia, Annie, Nana, Papa, Valerie and Al (live upstairs) and she thanks strangers. When we were at the Urgent Care, she cried every time anyone touched her, but as soon as they stopped, she would say over and over, Thank you! Thank you! She thanks the check out people, people at church, and pretty much everyone she sees, and she does it all unprompted. It is one of the cutest things EVER.
And a few things that are probably average for her age:
*She also just learned to ask, "How are you?" And she is constantly asking us how we're doing. If you ask her how she's doing, she always answers, "Good!"
*If you ask her anything that starts with "Do...?" (like, "do you want cereal?" or "do you want to go outside") she loves to answer, "Yes I do!!" Only she says do like "Dew" and she says Deeeeewwwwwww.
*If you offer her something she doesn't like (which is quite a few things) she says,
"No. No like it."
*When she's trying to decide on something she says (to herself), "Ummmmmmmmmmmm.....how 'bout.......THAT one." This always makes me smile. She says "how 'bout" a lot.
Just recently she started trying to speak in LONG sentences, which means I hear a whole bunch of unintelligible mumbling sounds mixed in with all the words she does know. It's dang funny.
*She is pretty athletic as well, probably almost as strong as Kalia was at this age. She has the cutest little (muscled) legs. Her lower back curves in sharply (just like mine) which totally makes her belly stick out. She loves to climb on things and out of things and jump off things, and she throws a ball (she prefers to throw oranges) like a CHAMP. She has some great coordination.
*She is very strong willed and doesn't like it when she doesn't get her way. She doesn't like getting her diaper changed and sometimes throws a fit, kicks and tries to roll away.
*She loves to brush her teeth and always asks for "poo paste" Lol.
*She has lately loved to be "bootfull" (beautiful.) She puts on the girls princess dresses, or asks for a ponytail, then she RUNS to her daddy and says, "look daddy! bootfull!" and waits for praise.
*She's pretty fearless



This is how Ella likes to eat nowadays.

Lastly, my FAVORITE Ella phrases right now:
Anytimje I take her diaper off and she's totally naked, she says with obvious relief, "Phew!"
When you ask her where something is, (and she usually doesn't know) she puts her little hands up and says, "No know where it is!" (but she rambles it all together like one big word.)
When we tell her something (ANYTHING) that gets her excited, she yells, "HooRA
Y!"
She is always randomly asking for DONUTS.
OKAY, THAT'S ENOUGH. My kids are amazing. I love them so much. They are really well-behaved. They don't have any cavities. They help each other out. I feel so lucky to have them.

Saturday, December 01, 2012

P.S. In case you hadn't heard

This baby is our FOURTH GIRL!!! Woot!!! This is the day we found out, I was about 18 or 19 weeks along.

Thanksgiving Fun

Thanks to my sister Krystal- I copied all of this right from her blog. We have had lots of sickness since we came home from Thanksgiving, and now that the kids are finally getting better, I have a sinus infection. I seriously feel awful. So I'm cheating on this today. Thanks, Sis.

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving was fabulous. Spent with the people I love the most. Usually we do a big dinner with my mom's family in Las Vegas, but we have known for some time that it was getting TOO big and that eventually we'd have to branch out and do our own thing. This was the year.


Heather and her family came from AZ and we had a nonstop party for days. Movies, temple sealings, games, FOOD, four square, gorgeous weather and a bounce house. Couldn't ask for more. Here are some of our family pics:


Love these two


Cheesy, but still cute








Parentals with the single sibs


Granddaughters


Grandkids--all 13 of them (plus one more on the way--Heather's)


Grandparentals with most of the boys


Grandsons


Plenty of food (and rainbow jello)! Look at Heather's yummy rolls. Nice work!


This was the "small" Thanksgiving. 24 of us. There were 19 more in Vegas. Yeah, it had gotten a bit out of hand!



Allie led a couple of the cousins in a group dance. They walked up and down this cement wall doing all sorts of fancy choreography. Allie is wearing hand-me-downs from our cousin in LV. It was too funny and we couldn't stop watching!


The old man doing what he does best--studying the gospel. 



Table set up



Enjoying the meal

The bounce house that saved our sanity



Four square action--fun for everyone!


The little boys preferred the sand. Imagine that!


And now some pictures from my (Heather's) camera
 Food Prep
 For never having made rolls, these turned out amazing. Thanks Mom, for your help!

 Annie helping set the table.
 Dad carving the ham that I made and glazed (homemade maple dijon glaze...YUM-O)
 Cheers! Kids enjoying the special glasses.
 Annie- just a few hours before the fever hit.
 Grumpy Ella.
 Waiting in line to tell Grandpa what they were thankful for. Kalia said "Heavenly Father"
 Annie said, "Kimmy."
 Filling plates for the kids first.
 We love Jonny! We missed Eric this year, who refused to come.

 Thanksgiving Performance- singing "At the Beginning" (to Eric on the phone).



 Getting ready to jelly-roll...
Love my fam so much.