Monday, October 22, 2012

13 Weeks- Quick Update

 Stomach Relaxed. I looked like this when I was about 24 weeks pregnant with Kalia.
 Stomach flexed- I'm laughing at my "stand at attention like a soldier" pose
Sidenote- see the curve in my lower back? It really makes my stomach and my butt both stick out further. True story.Dang it. It used to make me look  really skinny in high school when I had tight stomach muscles. :)
 Proof that I do wear makeup. Pretty much only on Sundays, although for a quick pick-me-up before I run to the store, I do blush and eyeliner. Takes 30 seconds. That's right. I started making runs to the store. I only feel sick about 2 days out of the week now. Still haven't tried to tackle the messy house. That's my project before November hits.
 Annie has a different body type than Kalia or Ella. She is much softer and less muscular. And she LOVES to dance. I think she shows some promise. So she started ballet.
I'm doing Joy School with Annie. She loves it and it's turned out super fun. Here's their Halloween party and parade. See the tall boy next to Annie? That's her "love." It's mutual. He says he's "in love." She talks about him constantly and can't get enough of him. We had him over to play the other day. They were just like any two kids. No lovey dovey stuff going on. They really just like each other's company I guess!

Finally...I can't wait for Halloween! I have a custom-made costume coming up! Thanks to a generous, kind, talented friend...
HINT: It involves glass slippers!

Tuesday, October 09, 2012

11 Weeks

Well, I cannot thank you enough for the support through that super hard period of SICKNESS!!!

I have the craziest news ever. I never threw up, not once! And I'm starting to feel better already!!

This was totally unexpected after such an intensely nauseating beginning...and I didn't dare make this post until I heard a heartbeat and made sure everything was okay, which I did yesterday. (165 bpm! I was so relieved, I cried.)

I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO thankful that it wasn't as awful as last time, and even more grateful that it is ending sooner. It's much better to expect it to be really bad and really long, and be pleasantly surprised, than to do what I did with Ella's pregnancy, and expect it to be not horrible, and not too long, and then have it be both those things.

Love this quote: Expect the worst, hope for the best, and enjoy the in-between.

I went back and read my blog about my pregnancy with Kalia, and it seems that this is also when my symptoms let up with her, and I didn't throw up in the first trimester with her (although I did randomly throw up a few times in the second trimester.) 

I'm not exactly sure why it was easier this time, but after doing some research on
HELPHER.ORG (for women who suffer from Hyperemesis (extreme pregnancy sickness), I got some really good tips, and they really seemed to help.

Most helpful tips:
*Protein helps nausea . I basically quit eating bread and crackers and pretzels. I started eating greek yogurt every day (Fage sweetened stuff) and smoothies with protein powder and again, more greek yogurt, and tried to eat anything I could that was high protein. Usually, I couldn't prepare it or it made me sick, so I relied on other people to supply me with food- Samuel, my mother-in-law, and anyone who wanted to help.

*On a tip from a friend, I bought Boost protein drinks and Atkin protein drinks (the chocolate milk kind, taste pretty good actually, and have vitamins too.) I drank these throughout the day, and even took some sips at night if I woke up to go the bathroom. These really helped.

*I took Unisom (I learned it MUST be the Doxylamine drug in the Unisom, and not the other one) along with 25 mg of B6 every 8 hours, including during the day. I took 1/4 a Unisom in the morning, again in the afternoon, and the other 1/2 of the Unisom at night. My sister told me that there is a build-up effect and you want to keep it in your system. This seemed to help a lot too.

*I took a nap almost every day. I always felt better on days I napped.

*I laid around and held SUPER still when I felt really close to throwing up.
According to the website, "Motion makes nausea worse" so...no exercising or movement unless it was absolutely necessary.

*I had trouble drinking water (didn't like Gatorade much this time either) so I have been a bit dehydrated- my lips are peeling and I'm in a bad habit of incessantly peeling the dry bits off. Gross.) But anyway, Samuel brought me home some Raspberry Lemonade (by the Simply brand, they also make orange juice and limemade, etc.) And it tasted SOOOOOO good, I drank that all time. I think Lemon in general is helpful for nausea, and even though there was sugar in it, which I normally don't like in drinks, it was better than nothing. And probably better than soda with high fructose corn syrup.

*The website also says that once you start throwing up and dehydration and lack of nutrition really sets in, it makes the cycle of throwing up harder to break, and the sooner you can manage the symptoms, the sooner the sickness can end in general. This seemed to be true in my case.

*I'm sure that the Priesthood blessing I got when I was 6 weeks a long helped. I was promised the nausea would lessen. And even though it technically got worse, of course, it certainly lessened in the severity I was expecting.

Well...I HOPE this helps some of you are pregnant or will be pregnant again!! I am not 100% feeling better, but I have had several days in a week where I ALMOST felt normal. I finally started doing a little laundry. Eventually I will get the house clean and it will feel REALLY good around here!!

And finally, since I haven't thrown up, I have already gained FIVE pounds. Dang it. That's a lot for me in the first trimester. I hope that I can slow it down a little in the 2nd trimester, now that I have a little experience counting calories (from before I got pregnant-- thanks to the very awesome/helpful App called MyFitnessPal.

Thank you again for so much support! It really does make a difference.
And I have to apologize to the person that I wrote about previously, who told me that since maybe my nausea started sooner, maybe it would end sooner....and I said I wanted to laugh and then slap her. I wish I had never said that. One because that sounds so mean. But Two because maybe she was right? So I had to put that out there. I've felt bad about writing that...although it does give insight into my raging hormones....   :/


Monday, October 08, 2012

Ella- 18 months- For the Record!


 Oh how I love this little girl. She has been soooooooooooooo fun to raise. Samuel always says he would have 10 more if they could be just like her.
 Her food sensitivities are a little better- She had an ice cream cone last night from McDonalds. I didn't hear any complaint of a stomach ache, but she had diarrhea this morning. But if there's not stomach aches, that's improvement! I think she will take the trade off! In this picture (above) she was enjoying a few bites of the neighbors birthday cake.  Two of Ella's "fetishes" include SHOES (anyones) and SWIMSUITS.  Multiple times a day she brings me shoes (usually matching) and says, "Shoes on?" And since we are still swimming down here in October, she finds swimsuits laying around and tries to put them on (usually without success)- so she brings them to me and says, "Su-suit? Su-suit?" She is totally happy once she has it on, even over clothes, and she doesn't necessarily have to go swim.  
 I've started putting her hair in a ponytail.  Samuel told me to stop it- it's making her look too old. But it's losing a little bit of curl, so sometimes she looks a little shaggy if I don't do something to it.
 How cute are baby wedge shoes? LOVE these. So sad she's almost outgrown them. (They came from Target.)

 She has this silly side to her personality and makes us laugh a lot. Especially Kalia and Annie, they think she's pretty funny.
 She still has those deliciously kissable cheeks.

A few more things I want to remember about her at this age:

She takes 1 nap, but recently has been sleeping for 3-4 hours. I LOVE it. It's really helped me be able to rest in the 1st trimester.

 She sleeps til about 7:30 or 8:30 every morning. Sleeps 12 hours at night.

She loves to say "TA-DA!!" when she does anything cool. 

She is talking a lot, and putting her large vocabulary to good use. She's putting two or three words together, some of my favorites being "Dere it is." (whenever we go hunting for her beloved pink blankie) and "Don't pease" (trying to teach her to STOP SHRIEKING.) She says that one with furrowed eyebrows and a pointed finger. Also, she is starting to be able to say, "Annie shoe" or "bye...Papa" or whoever she knows is leaving. She's also a little parrot, so when I carry her around and talk to her, I say, "Do you want to go to the park?" "Park." "Okay, let's get your shoes on." "Shoes!" "Should we bring a snack?" "Nack!" "I'll bring some apples." "Appo!"  I really appreciate her efforts to talk. I'm a big fan of "use your words."  :)

Whenever I tell her anything, and then say, "Kay?" She always answers, "Kay" like she's totally in agreement. Also, whenever I say, "right?" She answers, "Right." These always make me smile.

She is OBSESSED with playing games on the Ipod Touch. She is so attuned to any sound it makes (an email alert, the click it makes when you slide the unlock screen) she can hear it from the other room. She comes RUNNING in and starts incessantly asking, "Phone? Phone? Phone? Phone? Phone?" Usually she gets it when I remind her, "How do you ask?" And she (still) rubs her tummy (signing it) and says "pease."  But lately she's been saying please like her sisters, in her NICEST voice. It's so cute.

She likes to play a variety of games, but lately she's been checking out my Bejeweled Blitz. And sometimes she can do it (accidentally.) And when the gems start flaming, she says, "HOT! HOT!" and she won't touch those gems. It's funny.

She had her first ear infection last month- both ears actually. I thought it was pneumonia because of certain other symptoms but luckily it wasn't. Sadly, I put out a steam humidifier, and when I set her down to straighten out her blankets, she went right over to it and put her hand on it and got a second degree burn (awful blisters) on part of her hand. Luckily one visit to urgent care took care of all those problems, but her poor hand was a mess for about a week.

Other than that, she seems to have a good strong immune system. Both times someone caught Strep in our house, (once me, once Annie) she didn't catch it. Miraculously, somehow no one else caught it either time. 

She is really into splashing in the tub. I hate this. She's also discovered that she is tall enough to easily get in and out of the tub, and she does it constantly. I don't enjoy this either.

Lately she has been soooo cute when I put her to bed- still a pack and play in the storage closet. She will snuggle up into a ball on my chest (like a newborn) and then stick her ear right in my face, so that I can sing right into it and nibble on her ear. She laughs hysterically. I love putting her to bed. I sing her "Hush little baby" every night, and she's started singing the last word of each line. Melts my heart.

Speaking of singing, she loves to sing, especially the songs from Nursery singing time (which is my calling). So Eensy Weensy spider, Baa Baa Black Sheep, Twinkle Twinkle...all these songs are some of her favorites and she never gets tired of them. She also likes to sing bits of songs from the radio, like "So Bad...So bad..." (from Call Me Maybe).

Speaking of nursery, she has already been going for 5 months because Samuel is her nursery leader, and I've been going to all 3 nurseries doing singing time. She loves to have a "nack" during snack time.

She still drinks her Similac formula, at least 16 oz a day, sometimes 24 oz. And yes, still out of a bottle, and usually when I put her down for a nap and bedtime.  But she drinks almond milk and water and juice out of a cup, and she will always tell me which drink she wants.

She weighs 25 lbs.

She climbs on everything. She climbs things on the playground that an 18 month should NEVER be climbing on there own. So glad she hasn't fallen (knock on wood.)

She jumps off of everything, as long as there's something soft to land on.

She jumps off the diving board to anyone that will catch her.

She won't swim with floaties on. She can swim about 60% on her own.

She loves toys that play songs and brings them to me constantly to turn on.

She asks for help by saying, "Help you?" because I'm always asking her, "Want me to help you?" So she also often brings me the Ipod when she gets stuck and says, "Help you?"

She loves going outside for any reason (a lot like Kalia.)

She lately doesn't like to be carried or ride in a cart. She wants to RUN everywhere.

Her pooping schedule is out of wack, and she regularly goes whenever we swim (hate this) and after I've put her to bed. I have to go check her closet every night for a whiff of anything stinky before I go to bed, and often I have to wake her up and change her.

She still hasn't figured out how to climb out of her pack and play.

She LOVES books and loves when I read to her.

She plays better independently than any child so far.

This is good, because 4 mornings a week, it's just me and her.

She loves ice.

She always points out pictures of Jesus.

She still has lots of baby fat and is super cuddly.

She likes to sit on the couch and watch a "show" with me after Kalia and Annie have gone to bed (and when a 4-hour nap has made it a little too hard for her to fall asleep.)

I catch her frequently at the computer, pushing buttons on the printer and hearing it make sounds or spit out paper, or pounding away on the computer. I guess she likes technology. 

She won't eat a lot of chewy textures (like bread.) She also won't eat a lot of slippery foods either. My best chance of getting her to eat any fruit or veggie is to make sure it is pureed like baby food. So often I still just feed her that. Her diet has lots of room for improvement.

Every day she asks me for a vitamin (she calls them "amin") and she points to them up on the shelf. They are my gummy prenatals with DHA. I figure they are probably actually perfect for her.

She likes to sit on the potty with the help of the tiny toilet seat, and she pretends to wipe and then stuffs toilet paper into the toilet, but she has never gone, and I'm not trying to get her to yet, but I like her enthusiasm!

She really is just the happiest little thing, and really good natured and easy to be around (for the most part!) We couldn't be happier that she's ours.